Undone

Why do we have to hide all the time? I’ve noticed that we as a society are encouraged to hide our emotions and all sorts of silly things. Hide when we’re angry, or sad, or displeased, frustrated, anything that could be negative.

That’s annoying and stupid.

Take into consideration that one in ten rapes is reported. Isn’t that silly? SIlly… okay, stupid, moronic, asinine…. whatever. In any case I believe it’s because society thinks that a girl brings it on.

I have to say that I used to believe so myself. I was deluded and young, and I didn’t sleep much, or think. I’ve become now otherwise informed. Your right to say no is not taken away by the way you dress, or by what ally you walk down, or if you want to go on a date with a seemingly nice guy. You always ALWAYS ALWAYS have the right to say NO.

However in an addendum to that I must say that the women of the world should know that Men have out of control hormones. Seemingly nice men can be turned into odd and very scary people when their hormones take over. I heard it best said by my friend at work:

Men aren’t stupid, our hormones just misinform us

And while I would still like to believe that every man is the best, and a Prince all that…. I know it isn’t true. That may not be what they want to be.

A friend I met this past week asked me this question after writing wistfully in her journal:

Where is prince charming and why the hell isn’t he here yet?

I responded promptly: “He’s in his room drinking Malt liquor– Watching Smallville Re-runs.”

She laughed because she knew I was referring to HIM. I had to laugh as well just because I was so tired, and I thought it was next to the funniest thing all day.

Love and life don’t always mesh– not the way you want them to. Sometimes you can compromise them, and sometimes you have to choose– either way you have to make a decision, what to compromise and what to choose.

It’s your Life-

Derringer Meryl