Comments on: Beware… this is a mommy rant. https://animegrrl.com/?p=1327 second-guessing everything you said and done Wed, 06 May 2009 19:45:59 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.2.20 By: admin https://animegrrl.com/?p=1327&cpage=1#comment-73 Wed, 06 May 2009 19:45:59 +0000 http://animegrrl.com/?p=1327#comment-73 PS: My doctor (current) said my old OB was magic, he couldn’t but barely see my scar, or feel it. I miss my old OB. She was FAB!

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By: admin https://animegrrl.com/?p=1327&cpage=1#comment-72 Wed, 06 May 2009 19:44:53 +0000 http://animegrrl.com/?p=1327#comment-72 They don’t cut the muscles anymore. I was just researching this, and I thought I was right, but for sure I know now, that they slowly move the muscles out of the way to do an incision on the uterus. Still though, I know what you mean. I can’t imagine the recovery from cut muscles would have been like. I think the cutting of muscles would have made the surgery MUCH more risky than it is, which is probably why they don’t do it anymore.

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By: Carolyn https://animegrrl.com/?p=1327&cpage=1#comment-71 Sat, 02 May 2009 15:20:13 +0000 http://animegrrl.com/?p=1327#comment-71 You know… I would NEVER want to get a c section… ever… unless it was forced on me for whatever medical reason or something, but that’s not because I think that getting a csection will make me a bad or lazy mom. It’s because I don’t want to be gutted like a fish (hahah, jk…) but really I don’t want to have a scar and I don’t want my muscles and all to be cut through. I feel the same way about people who do totally natural with no drugs or epidural… that they are “better” or that they work harder or something, thereby making me feel lazy or like I can’t follow through. I think that is partially my own insecurities, but also stems from the attitude that people have about it.

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By: Mandinkus https://animegrrl.com/?p=1327&cpage=1#comment-70 Sat, 02 May 2009 13:33:37 +0000 http://animegrrl.com/?p=1327#comment-70 PS I think this is why I only talk to people on the internet that I know in real life!

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By: Mandinkus https://animegrrl.com/?p=1327&cpage=1#comment-69 Sat, 02 May 2009 13:32:57 +0000 http://animegrrl.com/?p=1327#comment-69 I’m sorry people have been making you feel bad! 🙁 I think you made the right choice, and you need to take care of yourself so that you can keep having babies and taking care of them! I also don’t think you took the easy way out, I think having a C-section would be totally scary! I know that you didn’t write this to us, but sometimes a little validation is nice to have! 😀 And, seriously, people are saying that only breastfeeding to a year is bad? If you are in a situation where you can do it for longer then great, but it’s creepy when people breastfeed kids that can come up and ask for it!

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